You vibe, me vibe, WE VIBE! The We Vibe is a funny looking adult toy that has developed a huge following since it was released. After trying it, I now understand what all of the buzz is about (no pun intended!) You can use the WeVibe by yourself with a dildo, but it is obvious that this toy was made for couples! After all, it is the first internal vibrator designed to be worn during intercourse! I have to admit, I was a little perplexed by the first images of the We Vibe and had absolutely no idea how big it was or how it worked. Now that I have seen it and had the pleasure of playing with it, I have some details to share that I hope will help you better understand this fun toy!

It is small and quiet! In pictures it is almost impossible to get a feel for the size of this toy, but its total length is 3.25” with the widest point being 1” wide and the bendable U part of it only being .25 wide. Having said that, don’t assume that this is some wimpy little vibrator. It has two virtually silent separate vibrators, one for clitoral vibration and one for g-spot vibration.

Experiment on your own! Although it is easy and intuitive to use, I do suggest you try this out on your own first to get a feel for how it works, what it feels like, and how it might best work for you and your partner. So here comes the fun part….after you charge your We Vibe, get your favorite personal lubricant, and experiment. It is designed so one end of the We Vibe slips inside your vagina for g-spot stimulation and the other end rests on your clitoris. (We do suggest you turn on the We Vibe before inserting.) Tension holds this toy in place, but if you are interested in some hands free fun, simply pull on a tight pair of underwear and enjoy!

The couple that plays together…has lots of fun!! What is so great about the We Vibe is that it is meant to be used with a partner and it works! Simply slip the WeVibe in, and enjoy clitoral and g-spot stimulation during intercourse. What’s better than the feel of your partner with the added bonus of vibration in all the right places? Don’t worry guys, aside from pleasing her even more, you get the added bonus of vibration too! Experiment with different positions. Woman on top positions allow for manual movement of the vibrating pad on the clitoris for those of you who like a little bit more movement in your clitoral stimulation.

We Vibe Tips and Tricks!

• Use lubricant! Adult toys always feel better for both of you with lubricant.
• It can be used with a condom.
• Girls, press your body against him so he not only feels the g-spot vibration inside, but the external vibrator also.
• We’re not saying you won’t notice it is there, but it isn’t uncomfortable, just different feeling. We can tell you that after the first time around the block with this toy you get used to the feel and look forward to your next We Vibe encounter!

I was talking to someone from the Sinclair Institute the other day and I had a chance to ask them what’s the 2 most popular questions that you get when people contact you. I was surprised that her answer was about first time users of sex toys.

Erica, the lady from Sinclair Institute, said that customers ask what the difference is between a dildo and a vibrator. The biggest difference is that a dildo doesn’t have a motor so there’s no vibration with it. Dildos can be made of cyberskin, silicone, jelly, or glass. Glass and pyrex are more popular materials for dildos these days. This material is hypo-allergenic since they can by cleaned in the dishwasher or boiled on the stove to clean. Glass can also warm to your inside temperature or you can cool it down by putting in the fridge.

Erica said that the second most popular question that she gets is what type of sex toy do I start with. You may want to start with something small so that you can get used to it and then graduate from there. The most important thing is to pick a size that looks confortable to you.

Put a spin on oral sex by getting a third party in on the action - a sex toy. While he’s pleasuring you have him lay a vibrating bullet against his cheek. It creates a hum that’s not too intense for you thanks to the buffering effect of his skin. This will also work for you to do it to him and using the vibrating bullet.

While there are some vibrators and dildos/dongs that are intended for anal use, this category covers all other kinds of anal toys - butt plugs and anal beads. When using any anal toy, be sure to apply plenty of lube to the toy and your anus for smooth, safe penetration.

Butt plugs tend to vary widely in length, but they’re generally wider than most other sex toys meant for anal use. Because of this feature, butt plugs are mainly the playground for experienced anal toy users instead of beginners. Butt plugs also contain a large flat base so butt plugs can be easily removed.

Anal beads are a string of several beads that can be inserted anally. These beads start off small and then grow larger, offering something for beginners and experienced sex toy users. Some of the anal beads even vibrate with movement so just walking to the water cooler can send your rear tingling.

There are a variety of sex toys out there to pick from. Different styles, sizes and materials make it hard to figure out which one is best. There are some questions that you need to ask yourself first.

What do you want to use it for – clitoris, vaginal, or anal? Do you want something that will hit the clitoris and vagina at the same time? Then a dual action vibe like a rabbit or pearl panther is for you. If you want something for just anal play then remember to make sure it has a flared base so that it doesn’t slip all the way in. G-spot vibrators, glass dildos, and anal vibrators are for more advanced stimulation.

How strong do you want your vibration? If you masturbate with a firm rub on the clitoris rather than a light touch, you are more likely to appreciate a strong vibration. Picking a toy with variable speed control so that you can play with it to see what works for you would be a good way to go.

How big do you want it? If you are someone who travels a lot then maybe something small like a pocket rocket is the way to go. If you plan to use the vibe for penetration, the girth of the toy may be just as crucial as the vibrating intensity. If you are not sure how much girth you want, go smaller rather than larger so you will know your new toy will fit.

How much do you want to spend? A bullet or vibrating egg may be the least expensive option for you but don’t let their size full you. They are quite strong and can be used all over both of your bodies in all of your erogenous zones. Some people like to start off with the cheaper one if they have never had a vibrator before but if you talk to anyone who has had one they will tell you that the deluxe, spinning dual action vibes are the best way to go. These are what some people refer to as the pearl rabbit, pearly panther, or lickin lizard vibrators.

Sex toys have come a long way. They now have different materials to pick from too so get familiar with them and have fun trying out all kinds of different ones to see what works best for you.