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In order to orgasm from oral sex you need him to use consistent steady strokes. The easiest way for him to do this is the lick up and down but you are more likely to orgasm by him running his tongue across your clitoris. Have him situate himself perpendicular to you lying on his side. He’s able to work his tongue more easily at an angle that’s optimal for your pleasure.

Make Circles

Let’s be honest: Most guys are just grateful to be getting a blow job. Rather than simply moving up and down use your tongue to slowly wind around his penis. Swirl up the shaft with the tip of your tongue. When you’re at the top slide your whole mouth down and then up with a sucking motion.

Put a spin on oral sex by getting a third party in on the action - a sex toy. While he’s pleasuring you have him lay a vibrating bullet against his cheek. It creates a hum that’s not too intense for you thanks to the buffering effect of his skin. This will also work for you to do it to him and using the vibrating bullet.

Every woman wants to know techniques for giving oral sex to her male partner and here it is.

You should start with a little teasing. Tease the head of the penis with your tongue. The head is the most sensitive part of the penis. Pay particular attention to the tip of the penis. This is the equivalent to the female clitoris; it is a super-sensitive bundle of nerves.

Basic Technique:

Slide your hand up and down the penis, closing it slightly when you reach the top and opening it slightly as you move back down. While doing this keep his penis moving in and out of your mouth (lips covering teeth) which should be applying a firm but comfortable pressure.

Next lick his penis as if it were a lollypop, using long slow movements over the head and up the sides. Take his penis into your mouth and swirl your tongue around the head.

Deep-throating is where you take the whole penis into your mouth rather than keeping a hand or two on it. This can be very difficult and uncomfortable, resulting in gagging. If you aren’t comfortable deep-throating your partner it’s ok because the head of the penis is the most sensitive part anyway so that’s what’s most important.

Don’t be shy about adding something a bit tasty to your playtime. A little flavored lubricant, chocolate, honey, pop rocks, ice, a sip of something hot or anything else that you think tastes good will make this a feast that can satisfy both of you. Pop some toothpaste in your mouth before you put his penis in your mouth and it will give a very cool feeling (temperature-wise). Another trick is to try popping an Altoids into your mouth before you begin. These curiously strong mints can give a fabulous tingle.

Also try twisting your head to one direction as your hand twists gently the other way. Men can find it very erotic to watch you lick their cock so be sure to remember that part of sex is showmanship; look him in the eye and while you do dirty things to him. Judge his reaction and what he likes and match it with that you are comfortable doing.

Tease your partner by changing the speed, get him really aroused by moving faster and sucking harder and then slow down so that he does not reach orgasm. Take him to the very brink of orgasm (not easy) and then slow him down. Enjoy it (he will), you are in complete control.

Discuss the matter of ejaculation before you start. If you would not like him to ejaculate in your mouth, let him know that and ask him to give you a shoulder tap or maybe a verbal announcement before this happens. You can also have him wear a condom (flavored, if you like) so he can let his ejaculate go without discomfort or awkwardness.

Always remember to keep an open line of communication between you and your partner as to what both of you like and dislike. Try new things and see what works and what doesn’t.

Most women want to receive this more than their partners want to provide it. It’s hard to get this technique but here’s a few helpful hints.

You don’t want to be too rough because you will hurt her instead of pleasuring her. Then again you don’t want to be too gentle and nothing will happen or it takes too long. Once you find your technique don’t change it. Also, don’t stop in the middle of it and leave her hanging.

If you haven’t done this before, you’ll want to keep some light on so that you can see what you are doing. Light some candles or dim the lights instead of having no lights at all.

Next, let your partner decide which position she wishes to adopt as she’ll want to be relaxed and comfortable which equals a better chance of orgasm. She may want to lie back while you’re at the foot of the bed or even act out a slave fantasy by standing up.

You can now begin by slowly stroking and kissing her body. Spend lots of time; work your way around her body then, when she’s been teased enough, start gently stroking her genitals.

Leave her underwear on and stroke through the fabric – when she becomes moist whip them off. Now is a good time to ask her how she likes it: slow or fast; gentle or hard. Make sure your tongue is nice and soft – don’t point or tense it.

Start with indirect stimulation: wiggling your tongue around and over the clitoris. Then, move into longer, wet, gentle strokes with your tongue keeping a slow but steady rhythm. Make sure you’re not being too rough and make sure she knows how much you’re enjoying it.

Keep a good steady rhythm up for maybe ten to fifteen minutes and if you’ve covered all the right areas your partner should be close to orgasm. Remember not to just focus on the clitoris. You’ll know when this is because her body will tense and she’ll probably be shouting words of encouragement at the top of her voice! Before she orgasms, try popping your finger into her vagina just to heighten the pleasure – she’ll let you know if she doesn’t like it.

Finally, don’t stop until she tells you to or pushes you away.