No matter what position you’re in you can enhance the experience by gently exhaling on each other’s skin. This adds soft steamy heat to other sensitive areas like your neck, nipples, or inside of your wrists which will give you tingles from head to toe.

Make Circles

Let’s be honest: Most guys are just grateful to be getting a blow job. Rather than simply moving up and down use your tongue to slowly wind around his penis. Swirl up the shaft with the tip of your tongue. When you’re at the top slide your whole mouth down and then up with a sucking motion.

Put a spin on oral sex by getting a third party in on the action - a sex toy. While he’s pleasuring you have him lay a vibrating bullet against his cheek. It creates a hum that’s not too intense for you thanks to the buffering effect of his skin. This will also work for you to do it to him and using the vibrating bullet.

It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other over your underwear, teasing and stroking through the fabric. You will build up anticipation so when you finally do have skin-onskin contact it will be much more explosive and exciting.

Show off:

Although your inner bad girl may get off on the idea of being caught in the act, the real you may not feel right about sneaking off to a bar bathroom but you can feed any secret exhibitionist appetites by having sex in front of a window with the lights off. Stand up against the window facing out and have him take you from behind. You’ll get a rush from just the possibility of being watched.