Give a jolt during sex by gently nipping your partner’s shoulder’s or earlobe. When you’re in the heat of passion you may go more into your head than your body. A little pain snaps you both back to the moment.

For greater stimulation in the missionary position, hook your knees over your partner’s shoulders. This angle puts more pressure on the clitoris which will give you a better chance of achieving orgasm. Clench your butt and lift your pelvis to create more friction and make your climatic moment even more mind-blowing.

Rather than simply making a beeline for his below the belt region, create a slow burn with feather light kisses. Start by kissing his eyelashes then the corner of his mouth, his jaw, and his collar bone. Next kiss his nipples, under his pecs, and alone his treasure trail and over to one hip bone and then to the other. As you are doing this you are building up anticipation as you make that slow seductive crawl. With the randomness of your kisses it keeps his nerves on high alert as his brain and body try to figure out where you’re going next.