With gas prices going up you may find it hard to take that special person out on a date. Look for some inexpensive ways to spend time together. There are always things to do locally that cost little or no money at all.

There’s always free concerts, street fairs, and art gallery openings going on. Attending any of these will expand your knowledge and give you two some bonding time. Who knows, you may find that you like a different type of music or a new local artist.

Another great tip is to work with your surroundings. You may have lakes, rivers, the beach, or parks close to you. You can make a day out of taking a bike ride or a hike and bring along a picnic.

Visit a local vineyard and see what special events they may have going on. I used to live close to one that had a different musical group on their grounds every Saturday and you could bring food there and have a picnic and just listen to music. The best part about it was that it was free and you could go inside and do the free wine tasting.

If you are a good cook and she likes to bake then spend some quality time in the kitchen and make a meal together. Nothing could be sexier than making a meal together and then sitting down to eat it together.

If you’re looking for something a little more intimate, try visiting sex-positive shops which offer sex toys and some even offer classes geared to enhancing your sex life. You could also watch an educational DVD that will enhance your sex life like one on Kama Sutra sex positions or erotic massage.

A good date is about spending time with a person.

A little birdie just told me that Sinclair is going to offer that UPS 2 day shipping for the same price as USPS shipping starting tonight! It’s supposed to only go for a couple of days so hurry up and order your loved one something for the holidays. You can’t go wrong with a new OhmiBod Vibrator or the many other hot holiday toys that Sinclair Institute has to offer. Take advantage of this great offer tonight!

Need some ideas for stocking stuffers for your loved one this holiday season?

Scratch and Win Lotto tickets are a fun way to spice up your sex life. Each game gives the player something to do or have something done to them.

Cock rings are great for entertaining both of you and are small enough for that stocking on the mantle.

Try lighting a Body Wax Massage Candle that doubles as massage oil. It gives a whole new meaning to making love by candlelight. Burn the candle, blow out the flame and drizzle the melted soy wax on your partner for a sensual massage.

Foreplay Dice make a great game to play and they don’t cost much. They are also small enough that your kids won’t see them and know what’s really going on after they go to bed. One die has different erotic actions and the other has the names of different body parts. Roll them together for a winning combination.

Another great item is a Kama Sutra Sexual Positions Card Deck. You would choose a card from the deck and slip one into you lover’s luggage, purse, lunchbox, or even leave one on the pillow to hint of things to come.

Try adding some excitement to your holidays by including a small vibrator in your stocking like the Octopus Vibrator. Small enough to take anywhere, the body of this cute little octopus is very powerful.

Sexual frustration is no myth. Couples who don’t have sex are more likely to feel stressed and to over-work themselves.

German researchers argue that sexual frustration is a complex phenomenon not to be underestimated, according to a report on Spiegel Online International. Read More

According to the study of almost 32,000 men and women, the lack of sex can precipitate a downward spiral, pulling couples into a vortex of all work and no play, literally.

Lead author Ragnar Beer called his study the Theratalk Project, and it has found that the less sex people have, the more work they seek to “work” out their sexual frustrations.

Beer’s team found that 36 percent of men and 35 percent of women who have sex only once a week take on extra work to compensate for their waning sex lives.

It’s worse for couples who don’t have sex at all. Forty-five percent of men and 46 percent of women who no longer have sex with their partner seek out other activities to replace their waning libidos.

Read more on the study here.

Spice up your Christmas gift giving this holiday season with these luxury sex toy Christmas gift ideas.

You may not be able to open these presents Christmas morning with the family, but they’re guaranteed to keep you warm at night and inspire a new year’s worth of sexual exploration. Plus, if you disappoint with your traditional gifts, sex toys are a great way of saying, “I’m sorry I bought you those steak knives, I really thought that’s what you asked for…can we have sex now please?”

This year’s theme? Toys that look as cool as they feel.

1. Tuyo

Tuyo is a vibrator that begs to be touched and offers much in return. A vibrating orb with five vibration settings and three speeds, Tuyo combines the magical allure of the sphere with the playful exploration of a rubber ball. Designed to be used for external stimulation, Tuyo is made of hard plastic, silicone, and stainless steel — stronger and cleaner materials that are less likely to cause allergic reactions. The Tuyo is just becoming available.

2. Just in Case Swarovski Crystal Condom Compact

In the early 90s, condom paraphernalia was everywhere. While often poorly executed, the idea of integrating a need for condoms with a desire for accessories is a worthwhile one. Just in Case may have perfected it with their line of condom compacts. These practical and pretty compacts have a secret compartment for condoms. For someone who wants to indulge both her sexual responsibility and her aesthetics, I recommend the Swarovski Crystal edition.

3. Form 6

This sleek and sturdy vibrator from luxury sex toy designer Jimmyjane feels like something special in your hands. It’s a quiet powerhouse featuring two independently controlled motors, each with a variety of vibration patterns, illuminated push button controls, and seamless medical-grade phthalate-free silicone and stainless steel construction. Bonus: It’s shower friendly. Jimmyjane considers their products from every angle resulting in products that you too will appreciate from every angle.

4. Tryst

Once you pick up one of theses wooden marvels, you simply won’t be able to put it down. Inspired by nature, Nobessence wooden dildos are made from sustainably farmed exotic hardwoods and have a hypoallergenic coating that makes them non-porous and perfectly safe for internal use. The Tryst was designed to be multi-functional, with one end designed for anal penetration and the other for g-spot stimulation. Because each piece is handmade, no two Trysts are exactly alike.

5. Nexus Vibro

This product, from a relatively new UK manufacturer, offers a genuine anal toy 2.0 experience. Building on the success of other toys designed specifically for prostate stimulation, the Nexus Vibro has smart vibration (three pulsation settings) and a surprisingly effective stainless steel perineum massager. I wouldn’t recommend this for beginners (both the size and the price suggest this is a toy for people who know what they’re looking for). But for anyone who is a bit more advanced, or who has a prostate-massage loving man in their lives, the Nexus will be a welcome treat under the tree.

6. Delight

Known for bright designs and innovative shapes, German silicone sex toy manufacturer Fun Factory has done it again with the Delight, its newest rechargeable silicone vibrator. Designed for external and internal use, the Delight features 32 vibration settings and conveniently charges while sitting in its carrying case. Between the safety benefits of hypoallergenic silicone and the eco-friendly plus of no batteries, the Delight is a gift you can feel good about giving.

7. Gigi and Liv

The Swedish designers at LELO continue their reputation of designing beautiful objects with an almost maddening functionality (seriously, until you figure it out, it can drive you crazy). But, once you’ve found your groove with these toys, you won’t want to stop putting them through their paces (or maybe that should be your paces…I’m not sure). Both Gigi and Liv feature several vibration settings, quiet operation, high-quality silicone, and well-insulated handles, in addition to a sexy, minimalist design. Both can be used externally or for penetration. Gigi (shown in purple) offers a unique g-spot design, while Liv (in blue) is marketed as being equally good for vaginal or anal use.

8. BodiTalk Escort

The newest release from the makers of OhMiBod, the BodiTalk Escort is a cute pink bullet vibrator with seven wonderfully practical vibration patterns that are activated when you place or receive a call on your cell phone. The vibration ends when the call ends. Like all products from OhMiBod, the Escort looks as fun and funky as it feels. Plus, cell-phone-haters can use the vibrator on its own with 2 AAA batteries.

9. Ideal and G-Plus

The newest addition to Candida Royalle’s Natural Contours line of vibrators continues the company’s tradition of sensual design and top quality manufacturing while offering a much more powerful massager for anyone looking for more speed and durability. The Ideal is a rechargeable electric vibrator featuring a soft head that’s comfortable for solo or partner play, and a brilliant ergonomic handle that lets you control the placement and pressure of the vibrator with greater precision than larger electric models. Most attachments from other “wand” style vibrators will fit, but the new G-Plus attachment offers simultaneous external and g-spot stimulation.

10. Rude Boy

Give the man in your life a gift of sexual awakening he won’t soon forget. This fun prostate massager is small and soft enough for first timers and powerful enough to offer something to the seasoned pro. The design is non-threatening and versatile, offering simultaneous prostate and perineum massage. It can be used hands-free or with a partner; the material is medical grade silicone, which is easy to clean and gentle to use.

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